Optimize destructured prop rest property loads

[arsyadal]

Summary

• rewrite property loads from non-mutated object-rest temporaries back to the original prop source when the property was not excluded by the destructure
• let later passes drop the unnecessary rest object so components can memoize against props.foo instead of the whole props object
• add regression tests covering both the optimized case and the excluded-property case

Testing

• node /tmp/react-36281/node_modules/jest/bin/jest.js --config ./scripts/jest/main.config.js src/__tests__/OptimizeDestructurePropertyLoads-test.ts --runInBand

Closes #36281